How Pets Are Handled in a Texas Divorce

Introduction

For many couples, pets are considered family members. But what happens to pets when a marriage ends in divorce? In Texas, as in most states, the legal system treats pets as property rather than family members. This classification can create significant emotional challenges for divorcing spouses who both want to keep the beloved dog, cat, or other pet.

 

How Pets Are Classified in a Texas Divorce

In Texas, pets are classified as personal property under state law. This means that during divorce proceedings, pets are treated the same as other items like furniture, vehicles, or jewelry. Unlike children, where custody and visitation arrangements prioritize the best interests of the child, there is no legal framework in Texas that specifically considers the “best interests” of the pet.

Example Scenario:

  • Who Gets Bella the Golden Retriever?
    John and Lisa adopted Bella, a Golden Retriever, two years into their marriage. After filing for divorce, both wanted to keep Bella. John argued that he paid for Bella’s veterinary bills, while Lisa pointed out that she was Bella’s primary caregiver, taking her to vet appointments, feeding her, and walking her daily. The court’s decision rested on community property principles, ultimately awarding Bella to Lisa because of her documented involvement in Bella’s care.

 

Determining Pet Ownership: Factors Courts May Consider

While Texas courts view pets as property, judges sometimes take other factors into account when determining who should keep the pet. Although these factors are not legally required, they can influence the outcome of a dispute over pet ownership:

  1. Who Purchased the Pet?
    The court will examine who initially purchased the pet and whether it was acquired before or during the marriage.
  2. Who Provided Primary Care?
    Evidence of who took the pet to vet appointments, fed them, walked them, or otherwise acted as the primary caregiver can be persuasive.
  3. Emotional Bonds and Attachments:
    While rare, some judges may consider which spouse has a closer emotional connection to the pet, especially if there are no children involved in the divorce.
  4. Children’s Attachment to the Pet:
    If the couple has children, courts may prefer to place the pet with the parent who has primary custody of the children to maintain stability for the family.
  5. Living Arrangements:
    Judges may evaluate the living arrangements of each spouse to determine where the pet would thrive. For instance, a large dog may not be suited to apartment living.

Example Scenario:

  • Living Arrangements Matter
    Sarah and Tom, divorcing after 10 years of marriage, both wanted custody of their dog, Max. Tom moved into a small studio apartment in downtown Austin, while Sarah stayed in the family home with a large yard where Max had plenty of space to run and play. The court considered the living arrangements and awarded Max to Sarah, citing her ability to provide a better environment.

 

Creative Solutions for Pet Custody Disputes

Although Texas courts do not offer formal “pet custody” orders, divorcing couples can negotiate their own arrangements through a settlement. Mediation and collaborative divorce are effective ways to create a plan for sharing time with a pet.

Common Solutions Include:

  1. Visitation Schedules: Couples can agree to a schedule where each spouse gets time with the pet on specific days or weeks.
  2. Shared Expenses: Divorcing couples can agree to share the costs of veterinary care, food, grooming, and other expenses.
  3. Designating a Primary Owner: One spouse may agree to be the primary owner, while the other retains visitation rights.
  4. Co-Pet Parenting: In rare cases, couples may continue co-parenting the pet, particularly if they have maintained an amicable relationship.

Example Scenario:

  • A Shared Custody Agreement for Luna
    Emma and Jack both wanted to keep their cat, Luna, after their divorce. During mediation, they agreed that Luna would live with Emma full-time but that Jack could visit her every other weekend. They also agreed to split the costs of Luna’s food, grooming, and veterinary care.

 

Protecting Your Pet’s Future in a Divorce

If you’re concerned about losing your pet in a Texas divorce, there are steps you can take to strengthen your case:

  1. Keep Records: Maintain documentation of your pet’s veterinary bills, adoption papers, and receipts for food and supplies to demonstrate your role as the primary caregiver.
  2. Prove Primary Caregiving: Document evidence that shows you are the one who primarily cares for the pet, such as photos, videos, or witness statements.
  3. Consider a Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreement: Couples can include provisions about pet ownership in a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement, ensuring that the issue is settled in advance.
  4. Work Toward a Settlement: Negotiating directly with your spouse or through mediation can help avoid a lengthy and costly court battle.

Example Scenario:

  • Using a Prenuptial Agreement to Protect a Pet
    Before marrying, Rebecca and James signed a prenuptial agreement stating that Rebecca’s Labrador, Charlie, would remain her property in the event of a divorce. When their marriage ended, the prenup allowed Rebecca to retain custody of Charlie without dispute.

 

What Happens If Couples Can’t Agree?

If a couple cannot agree on who keeps the pet, the court will make the decision based on Texas property law. This outcome may not always reflect what is best for the pet, as the court’s primary concern is determining ownership rather than the pet’s well-being.

Example Scenario:

  • A Disputed Outcome
    In a heated divorce, Michael and Rachel couldn’t agree on who should keep their French Bulldog, Daisy. The judge ruled in Michael’s favor because he provided proof that Daisy was a gift from him to Rachel during the marriage, making Daisy community property. Michael’s documentation, combined with his claim that he originally paid for Daisy, swayed the court’s decision.

 

Pets and Domestic Violence

In cases involving domestic violence, pets can become victims or leverage points during the divorce process. Texas law allows judges to issue protective orders that include provisions for pets. This means the court can prohibit an abusive spouse from harming or interfering with a pet during the divorce process.

Example Scenario:

  • Protecting a Pet from Abuse
    Karen filed for divorce after enduring years of abuse from her husband, Greg. During the divorce proceedings, Karen’s attorney successfully petitioned for a protective order that prevented Greg from taking or harming their dog, Rocky.

 

How can we assist?

For pet owners in Texas, divorce can raise challenging questions about who will keep a beloved companion. Since Texas law treats pets as property, the outcome often depends on factors like ownership, caregiving, and living arrangements. However, through mediation and creative solutions, divorcing couples can prioritize their pet’s needs while finding a fair resolution.

Whether you’re negotiating a settlement or heading to court, having an experienced family law attorney by your side can make all the difference. Protect your rights and your pet’s future by seeking professional legal guidance tailored to your unique situation.

At our firm, we have extensive experience assisting clients with divorce cases. Our team includes a board-certified family law attorney, with advanced business degrees, and a specialist in negotiation and mediation. Contact us at 832-538-0833 to schedule a consultation and get personalized legal advice on your situation.